Friday, October 16, 2009

Raymond Isaac Acosta

Raymond Isaac Acosta
Raymond was born on December 2nd, 1981
to Linda Acosta and John Armijo in Denver, CO.
Born with a congenital heart defect, his parents were told that he had a 20% chance of making it through the night, but being the fighter he was, he made it through that first night.
Raymond lost his father John when he was five years old and he quickly became the little man of the house, he and his mother took care of one another.
He also made it through the next nine years before being told that he would need a new heart and he was placed on the heart transplant list. On Halloween night in 1991, a 12 year old girl died in San Francisco, her family selflessly gave her heart for donation and Raymond received that precious gift. He was the Ambassador for Children’s Hospital in 1991 and those that took care of him at the hospital called him “A fighter, courageous, delightful, thoughtful, and a charmer”!
Raymond’s body often struggled with this new heart and each time the doctors would give an even stronger anti-rejection medicine.
He was a fighter, he prevailed through each rejection with a thirst for life and each of his family members and friends rallied behind him.
He went through the challenging times of being a teenager and his mother often turned to his older siblings to come speak with him, give him advice, or even just give a good scolding to him.
Raymond’s life came to an abrupt end on October 11, 2009, but in all actuality a part of him died on January 23rd, 2002 when his mother passed away. She was the stabilizing force in his life and her death was the final blow for Ray. He survived without his mother for seven years, however much of that time was just existing for him. Ray maintained the same job for eight years. He also maintained relationships and had many friends. Let us all be grateful for the time spent with him.

Raymond was preceded in death by both of his parents Linda and John.

He is survived by his Grandfather Raymond Acosta, Grandmother Erma Acosta, Grandmother Alice Armijo.
His brothers; Michael and Domingo Armijo.
His sisters; Joann Armijo, Janine Sandoval, and Lauren Aguirre.
Aunt and Godmother Gloria Rico Duran and Uncle Rick Duran,
Godfather Pat Vigil, Godson Hector Herrera
Aunt Kat Alexis and Uncle Michael Gallegos,
Uncle John and Aunt Michelle Acosta.
Numerous other Aunts, Uncles, cousins and friends.

The family of Raymond would like to thank you for your support, prayers, and condolences during this difficult time in our lives. May the Lord reward you for your kindness, grace, and mercy that you have shown us, in Jesus name, Amen.

9 comments:

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Tammy and Rob said...

Oh how sweet of you Flor!! Thank you for your condolences, he was a fighter. I will go look at your shop soon and thank you so much for this special offer. Your art is so soothing to me ;)

Anonymous said...

I've missed your previous posts, so I've gone back to read them. I am so sorry for your loss. He was so young and he had a beautiful smile.
May God give you the strength to get you through this difficult time.
Sandra

Tammy and Rob said...

Thanks Sandra, it's tough and we are so thankful for the time spent with him, we do miss that smile!
Thanks for stopping by, hope all is going good for you.

Tammy and Rob said...

Thanks Sandra, it's tough and we are so thankful for the time spent with him, we do miss that smile!
Thanks for stopping by, hope all is going good for you.

Barbara Lewis said...

I'm new to your blog and what a tribute you paid to Ray, your cousin. He had lots of up and downs and had the loving support of his family. He's in heaven now with his parents. I'm sorry for your loss.

Barbara said...

I was a good friend of Linda's back in the day (Eastside). I was cleaning out some things and came across an old (yellowing) article from the newspaper announcing Ray as the 1992 Ambassador. I searched the internet trying to find him as i thought he may want to have this article only to find this link. Needless to say that it left me totally deflated. My thoughts are with his family.
Barbara Cherino

Pedro Ramirez said...

This story was very moving, thanks for sharing for this blog is more than just art, it is a part of you.

Tammy and Rob said...

Barbara Cherino,
Thank you for sharing and I'm sorry you had to find out about Ray this way, it was totally unexpected for us and we miss him so much! We appreciate your kindness. If you talk to Mona, please tell her hello for me.